nicole calder

what does it mean to ‘cheat on someone’? is it considered cheating to be attracted to someone else? to feel connected to someone else? to...

is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...

love blinds us. when we're with someone, we're so caught up in ‘making it work' we don't stop to consider whether this is actually the...

one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...

i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...

"be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...

Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...

In life we have two options: be an author, or be a victim. We can hold ourselves accountable, or we can be unaccountable. We can be the...

I’ve had a few very good conversations centred around this topic of late, many of which have been inspired by someone who lives and loves...

This topic has been on my heart a lot since initiating this blog. I have frequently found myself wanting to write about my experiences,...

To the woman who last had my heart, My life hasn’t made much sense without you. I feel as though I’m merely existing, not living. That’s...

How many times have you opened yourself up to someone, only for them to reply with just love yourself or just be positive? Yet, despite...

How many of you have really struggled to move on with your life after a break up? Perhaps you’ve struggled to let go, or perhaps you’ve...