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what does it mean to ‘cheat on someone’? is it considered cheating to be attracted to someone else? to feel connected to someone else? to...
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nicole calder
Jul 26, 20212 min read
HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?
is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...
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nicole calder
May 28, 20212 min read
THE BEAUTY OF PERSPECTIVE
love blinds us. when we're with someone, we're so caught up in ‘making it work' we don't stop to consider whether this is actually the...
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nicole calder
May 21, 20212 min read
TRY HARDER OR LEAVE?
one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...
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nicole calder
Oct 13, 20202 min read
BREAK UPS
i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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nicole calder
Feb 5, 20172 min read
be not yourself
"be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...
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nicole calder
Dec 12, 20162 min read
Heartbreak
Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...
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nicole calder
Sep 4, 20165 min read
Be the author of your life
In life we have two options: be an author, or be a victim. We can hold ourselves accountable, or we can be unaccountable. We can be the...
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nicole calder
Aug 17, 20167 min read
What’s up with our dating culture?
I’ve had a few very good conversations centred around this topic of late, many of which have been inspired by someone who lives and loves...
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nicole calder
Apr 21, 201616 min read
The precursor to "The Beauty in Pain"
This topic has been on my heart a lot since initiating this blog. I have frequently found myself wanting to write about my experiences,...
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nicole calder
Mar 28, 20167 min read
A love letter of sorts
To the woman who last had my heart, My life hasn’t made much sense without you. I feel as though I’m merely existing, not living. That’s...
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nicole calder
Mar 22, 20169 min read
“One liners” – Advice that really isn’t that practical
How many times have you opened yourself up to someone, only for them to reply with just love yourself or just be positive? Yet, despite...
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nicole calder
Mar 15, 201610 min read
Moving on in the 21st century
How many of you have really struggled to move on with your life after a break up? Perhaps you’ve struggled to let go, or perhaps you’ve...
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