break ups

Aug 16, 20212 min read

CHEATING

what does it mean to ‘cheat on someone’? is it considered cheating to be attracted to someone else? to feel connected to someone else? to...

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nicole calder

Jul 26, 20212 min read

HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?

is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...

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nicole calder

May 28, 20212 min read

THE BEAUTY OF PERSPECTIVE

love blinds us. when we're with someone, we're so caught up in ‘making it work' we don't stop to consider whether this is actually the...

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nicole calder

May 21, 20212 min read

TRY HARDER OR LEAVE?

one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...

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nicole calder

Oct 13, 20202 min read

BREAK UPS

i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...

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nicole calder

Feb 5, 20172 min read

be not yourself

"be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...

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nicole calder

Dec 12, 20162 min read

Heartbreak

Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...

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nicole calder

Sep 4, 20165 min read

Be the author of your life

In life we have two options: be an author, or be a victim. We can hold ourselves accountable, or we can be unaccountable. We can be the...

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nicole calder

Aug 17, 20167 min read

What’s up with our dating culture?

I’ve had a few very good conversations centred around this topic of late, many of which have been inspired by someone who lives and loves...

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nicole calder

Apr 21, 201616 min read

The precursor to "The Beauty in Pain"

This topic has been on my heart a lot since initiating this blog. I have frequently found myself wanting to write about my experiences,...

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nicole calder

Mar 28, 20167 min read

A love letter of sorts

To the woman who last had my heart, My life hasn’t made much sense without you. I feel as though I’m merely existing, not living. That’s...

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“One liners” – Advice that really isn’t that practical

nicole calder

Mar 22, 20169 min read

“One liners” – Advice that really isn’t that practical

How many times have you opened yourself up to someone, only for them to reply with just love yourself or just be positive? Yet, despite...

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nicole calder

Mar 15, 201610 min read

Moving on in the 21st century

How many of you have really struggled to move on with your life after a break up? Perhaps you’ve struggled to let go, or perhaps you’ve...

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