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is your organisation run well?
over the past couple of weeks, i have started a job and quit and i've had a trial shift in which i never contacted the organisation...
nicole calder
Dec 16, 20225 min read
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ANGER IS OUR GATEWAY
we often perceive anger as being a negative emotion or an undesirable attribute, but what if anger is actually what defines us? in one of...
nicole calder
Sep 25, 20222 min read
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HUMANS ARE ANIMALS
humans are animals. in the sense that our behaviours are very similar. the animals we saw down in island bush camp were very shy and...
nicole calder
Aug 23, 20222 min read
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HOW CAN YOU MAKE PEOPLE FEEL VALUED
i've often been thinking about how you can make people feel valued without costing an organisation a lot of money. here are some ideas: 1....
nicole calder
May 21, 20222 min read
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IT'S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY
it's about the principle. i was recently demoted at work. demoted after being promised that nothing was changing with my role. demoted...
nicole calder
May 15, 20222 min read
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LOOK AFTER THE ONES WHO LOOK AFTER YOU
too often, we take good people for granted. these are the people that are like candles - the ones who burn themselves to give light to...
nicole calder
May 12, 20222 min read
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MY NEED FOR RECOGNITION
is it my need or is it a basic human need? why do we need to feel recognised? aren't we conditioned to believe that internal recognition...
nicole calder
Apr 19, 20222 min read
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ABSENCE OF TRUST
over the past couple of years, i've been fortunate to give a few team talks to the team i play soccer for, Salisbury Inter Soccer Club,...
nicole calder
Aug 4, 20212 min read
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THE IMPORTANCE OF GETTING YOUR NEEDS MET
for those of you who know me, you'll know that maslow's hierarchy of needs is one of my favourite pyramids to reference. i spent many...
nicole calder
Jul 30, 20212 min read
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WHAT MAKES A STRONG CULTURE?
safety. a strong culture is epitomised by the level in which individuals feel they can be themselves and aren't just accepted for that,...
nicole calder
Jan 23, 20212 min read
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ACHIEVEMENTS LOOK GOOD ON YOUR RÉSUMÉ, CONNECTIONS LOOK BETTER ON YOUR EULOGY
a few weeks ago, the team i play soccer for lost in the preliminary final. we were favourites, yet we were defeated. so naturally, one...
nicole calder
Oct 19, 20202 min read
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YOU HAVE TO REINFORCE THE GOOD
in fact, you have to do this often. if you want to change someone’s behaviour, telling them what they’re doing wrong is less effective...
nicole calder
Sep 17, 20201 min read
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KNOW YOUR VALUE
i’ve realised over the years that a lot of organisations and sporting teams care more about the role you fill than they do about your...
nicole calder
Jul 20, 20202 min read
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BELIEF
take a great player, put them in a toxic team. what happens? the great player becomes not-so-great. is it the player’s fault, or is it...
nicole calder
Jul 14, 20202 min read
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YOUR BOSS IS A HUMAN TOO
this past week, i witnessed two men i respect become vulnerable with me. one admitted that he had been struggling with motivation ever...
nicole calder
May 30, 20201 min read
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The most underrated form of leadership
Is a leader a leader if no one follows them? I remember being posed this question in a social psychology class many years ago and I’ve...
nicole calder
May 16, 20204 min read
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Coaching philosophy 2.0
What is my coaching philosophy all about? The same thing that my life is all about: people. Specifically though, establishing connections...
nicole calder
Apr 26, 20206 min read
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LEADERSHIP
what makes a great leader? leaders use their social influence to maximise the efforts of others to achieve a common goal. notice what...
nicole calder
Mar 28, 20202 min read
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What makes a great leader?
What makes a leader great? Well first, let’s look at what it means to be a leader. There are many definitions on the web, but I’ll use...
nicole calder
Mar 27, 20204 min read
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Self-isolation
That’s what we’ve all essentially been confined to, except for those that are still working. What could possibly be so hard about staying...
nicole calder
Mar 23, 20205 min read
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