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May 18, 20221 min read

SOMETIMES I HATE MYSELF, TOO

over the past couple of months, i've really struggled with who i am. i've lost sight of my values. i've become fixated on things that i...

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nicole calder

May 15, 20222 min read

IT'S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY

it's about the principle. i was recently demoted at work. demoted after being promised that nothing was changing with my role. demoted...

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nicole calder

May 3, 20222 min read

UNCONSCIOUS NATURE OF SOCIAL MEDIA

looking through my facebook memories over the past couple of weeks, i've found it interesting to see the development of social media over...

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PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES

nicole calder

Nov 8, 20212 min read

PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES

read that again. this is one of the most liberating phrases you will ever read. often in life we tend to do two things - we tend to take...

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nicole calder

Oct 11, 20211 min read

I'M A FRAUD

for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...

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nicole calder

Jun 20, 20212 min read

SAY SORRY

even if you don't think you're in the wrong. apologising doesn't mean you accept the other person's behaviour, nor does it mean you don't...

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nicole calder

Feb 17, 20212 min read

HUMBLING TRUTHS OF THE ELDERLY

growing old isn't easy. it's challenging and often confusing. not only is this a difficult process for those experiencing the ageing, but...

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nicole calder

Feb 13, 20212 min read

CHOOSE LOVE, NOT FEAR

i've never understood why we complicate love and relationships. if you like someone and they like you, why then would you not want to be...

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nicole calder

Jan 28, 20211 min read

BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...

try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...

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nicole calder

Oct 24, 20202 min read

WHAT WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT...

if your mind was free to think about anything? often in life we become fixated - on people, on things, on situations that it ends up...

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nicole calder

Jun 23, 20202 min read

POLITICS

i try to stay away from commenting on politics, not because i don’t have an opinion, but because i don’t have all the facts. and the...

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nicole calder

May 5, 20202 min read

ARE YOU HELPING OR HURTING?

on my way to work yesterday, i passed a galah that was unable to fly. growing up being a vet’s daughter, i naturally stopped, wrapped it...

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