death and the dying
i've been struggling to write this post because i wasn't sure i could sufficiently articulate the heaviness of my thoughts. nor was i...
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nicole calder
Aug 26, 20222 min read
THE POWER IN MUSIC
there’s a beauty in music that cannot be shared through other forms of media. music is transformative; it takes you back to a moment in...
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nicole calder
Jul 26, 20212 min read
HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?
is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...
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nicole calder
Jul 3, 20212 min read
LETTING GO
what's considered a setback and what's considered a sign? when is it called persistence and when is it called stupidity? suffering isn't...
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nicole calder
May 21, 20212 min read
TRY HARDER OR LEAVE?
one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...
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nicole calder
Feb 17, 20212 min read
HUMBLING TRUTHS OF THE ELDERLY
growing old isn't easy. it's challenging and often confusing. not only is this a difficult process for those experiencing the ageing, but...
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nicole calder
Oct 17, 20202 min read
HOW DO YOU LET GO OF SOMEONE?
we as humans like to attach to people and to things. attachment gives us a sense of security, a sense of purpose, a sense of control. but...
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nicole calder
Oct 13, 20202 min read
BREAK UPS
i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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nicole calder
Aug 16, 20202 min read
Living eulogy
Almost two months ago I wrote about the effects of my Dad’s medical scare and the resulting confrontation with not only my own...
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nicole calder
Jun 30, 20205 min read
Death
This is a topic I don’t want to talk about. I don’t want to talk about it because it scares the fucking shit out of me. The concept of...
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nicole calder
May 5, 20202 min read
ARE YOU HELPING OR HURTING?
on my way to work yesterday, i passed a galah that was unable to fly. growing up being a vet’s daughter, i naturally stopped, wrapped it...
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nicole calder
Dec 16, 20194 min read
Letting go
How? How do you let go? How do you let go of something you still want, but can’t have? This isn’t a trick question, nor is it a post with...
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