nicole calderNov 14, 20212 min readA FRIEND FOR A LOVERi always thought that to be with someone there had to be an initial spark. an initial attraction. an initial desire. my current...
nicole calderMay 21, 20212 min readTRY HARDER OR LEAVE?one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...
nicole calderJul 27, 20202 min readSUICIDESthere’s been quite a few recently. and i think what’s so upsetting about them is knowing how much pain these individuals were in to...
nicole calderJun 28, 20202 min readPET APPRECIATION POSThow great are pets, am i right?! seriously though, i think animals and pets are an extremely underrated form of a coping mechanism. data...
nicole calderDec 16, 20194 min readLetting goHow? How do you let go? How do you let go of something you still want, but can’t have? This isn’t a trick question, nor is it a post with...
nicole calderOct 14, 20195 min readA work in progressThe only thing that’s constant in life is change. Our state of mind is never guaranteed. That’s why striving for happiness is an...
nicole calderNov 6, 20185 min readConnection is the ultimate antidepressantSport is a drug. And I was addicted to it. When I was cut from the United squad a few weeks ago, I went through some extreme withdrawals....
nicole calderApr 5, 20175 min readThe humbling nature of sufferingThere is much to learn from being on the receiving end of a particular situation that has formerly caused significant pain and suffering....