nicole calder

The only thing that’s constant in life is change. Our state of mind is never guaranteed. That’s why striving for happiness is an...

I admit, I was probably a little dramatic with my last blog post. I was hurt. Frustrated. Devastated. After working so hard, doing...

We see commitment as being virtuous, but is it really? Do good things really come to those who are committed, loyal, and devoted? Or is...

These are unedited excerpts from my journal. Some names have been altered to respect the privacy of the individuals mentioned. 17th...

Sometimes it takes meeting someone to help you realise all the places in which you are stuck. At least that’s what happened with me....

These two words have pervasively infiltrated my life in the past week or so. After the realisation I discovered while in America about my...

Do I like her? As a friend? As something more? Do I want to be her? Do I envy her? Do I like her style? Is she into women too? These are...

"be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...

I’ve been struggling for some time now and it hasn’t been until the past month that I’ve really started to understand the reason why. At...

I have this phrase tattooed on me. Well, not tattooed, but I have it engraved on the dog tags that I wear all the time in remembrance of...

“This is what being broken feels like. It feels like none of your body is connected. It feels like there’s emptiness all over; holes and...

When asked who you are, how do you respond? How is it that you choose to define yourself? Many unconscious humans use labels to define...