A work in progress
The only thing that’s constant in life is change. Our state of mind is never guaranteed. That’s why striving for happiness is an...
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nicole calder
Sep 20, 20196 min read
Some dreams don't come true
I admit, I was probably a little dramatic with my last blog post. I was hurt. Frustrated. Devastated. After working so hard, doing...
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nicole calder
Aug 22, 20194 min read
The cost of commitment
We see commitment as being virtuous, but is it really? Do good things really come to those who are committed, loyal, and devoted? Or is...
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nicole calder
Jan 22, 201913 min read
Get raw, get real
These are unedited excerpts from my journal. Some names have been altered to respect the privacy of the individuals mentioned. 17th...
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nicole calder
May 28, 20188 min read
Who do you want to become?
Sometimes it takes meeting someone to help you realise all the places in which you are stuck. At least that’s what happened with me....
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nicole calder
Feb 22, 20187 min read
Not enough
These two words have pervasively infiltrated my life in the past week or so. After the realisation I discovered while in America about my...
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nicole calder
Mar 10, 20177 min read
The destruction caused in the name of religion
Do I like her? As a friend? As something more? Do I want to be her? Do I envy her? Do I like her style? Is she into women too? These are...
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nicole calder
Feb 5, 20172 min read
be not yourself
"be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...
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nicole calder
Jan 24, 20176 min read
A purposeless life
I’ve been struggling for some time now and it hasn’t been until the past month that I’ve really started to understand the reason why. At...
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nicole calder
Oct 4, 20165 min read
Be yourself and be okay with it
I have this phrase tattooed on me. Well, not tattooed, but I have it engraved on the dog tags that I wear all the time in remembrance of...
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nicole calder
Sep 21, 20164 min read
Unbecoming to become
“This is what being broken feels like. It feels like none of your body is connected. It feels like there’s emptiness all over; holes and...
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nicole calder
Jul 31, 20166 min read
Who are you?
When asked who you are, how do you respond? How is it that you choose to define yourself? Many unconscious humans use labels to define...
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