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nicole calder
May 30, 20223 min read
WE ARE NOT THE STORIES WE TELL OURSELVES
"many people are afraid to heal because their entire identity is centred around the trauma they've experienced. they have no idea who...
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nicole calder
Jul 26, 20212 min read
HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?
is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...
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nicole calder
Jul 3, 20212 min read
LETTING GO
what's considered a setback and what's considered a sign? when is it called persistence and when is it called stupidity? suffering isn't...
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nicole calder
Oct 24, 20202 min read
WHAT WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT...
if your mind was free to think about anything? often in life we become fixated - on people, on things, on situations that it ends up...
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nicole calder
Oct 17, 20202 min read
HOW DO YOU LET GO OF SOMEONE?
we as humans like to attach to people and to things. attachment gives us a sense of security, a sense of purpose, a sense of control. but...
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nicole calder
Oct 13, 20202 min read
BREAK UPS
i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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nicole calder
Sep 6, 20202 min read
OUR NEED FOR CONTROL
as humans, we feel we need to be in control. we try to control our lives. we try to control other people. we try to predict the future....
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nicole calder
Aug 9, 20202 min read
WEIGHT LOSS
in 18 months, i lost 10kgs. my secret? i didn’t intend to. i always have mixed feelings about goal setting because when we set goals,...
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