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how are you, really?
when was the last time someone asked you, "how are you, really?" every day, true to the Aussie culture, we typically say "hey how's it...
nicole calder
Jan 27, 20232 min read
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warning signs
i talk a lot about warning signs, but often in relation to people that you see regularly, that you talk to regularly. is it still...
nicole calder
Sep 28, 20223 min read
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THE NEED FOR BALANCE
without your work, who would you be? much of our lives are consumed by what we do. we work so we can earn a wage to buy us freedom to...
nicole calder
Apr 11, 20222 min read
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I'M A FRAUD
for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...
nicole calder
Oct 10, 20211 min read
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WHAT WE RESISTS, PERSISTS
sometimes life can be shit. there's no denying that. but often when we experience undesirable feelings, we try to run from them rather...
nicole calder
Jun 28, 20212 min read
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IF NOT YOU, THEN WHO?
how many times have you met someone and thought, holy shit, they're crazy? and because of that, you've decided they're too much. being...
nicole calder
May 18, 20211 min read
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BAGGAGE
everyone has it. the goal in life is not to find people without baggage, but to find those people whom you're willing to sort through...
nicole calder
May 14, 20211 min read
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WE DON'T NEED MORE PSYCHOLOGISTS
well, we do. but that's not the solution. the reality is, we're always going to need more psychologists. just like we're always going to...
nicole calder
Apr 10, 20212 min read
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LESS TALKING, MORE DOING
yesterday i finally did what i’ve been talking about doing for a while - i ran my first mental health training session for individuals to...
nicole calder
Mar 27, 20211 min read
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EXPLAIN, DON'T EXCUSE
one of the primary principles i learned in psychology was to explain human behaviour, not excuse it. understanding why humans behave the...
nicole calder
Oct 4, 20201 min read
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SUICIDES
there’s been quite a few recently. and i think what’s so upsetting about them is knowing how much pain these individuals were in to...
nicole calder
Jul 27, 20202 min read
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Self-isolation
That’s what we’ve all essentially been confined to, except for those that are still working. What could possibly be so hard about staying...
nicole calder
Mar 23, 20205 min read
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PART 2: SUICIDE
the photo from my last post was taken during a time when i was encompassed by darkness - a time when i considered taking my life as being...
nicole calder
Feb 17, 20202 min read
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SUICIDE
let’s talk about it. does the mere act of reading that word make you feel uncomfortable? good, then you need to read the rest of this...
nicole calder
Feb 16, 20202 min read
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A work in progress
The only thing that’s constant in life is change. Our state of mind is never guaranteed. That’s why striving for happiness is an...
nicole calder
Oct 13, 20195 min read
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Some dreams don't come true
I admit, I was probably a little dramatic with my last blog post. I was hurt. Frustrated. Devastated. After working so hard, doing...
nicole calder
Sep 20, 20196 min read
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The decision that changed my life
Preliminary final. Salisbury Inter versus Adelaide City. Two goals down, thirty minutes in. The ball’s being crossed in by one of the...
nicole calder
Sep 9, 20195 min read
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Connection is the ultimate antidepressant
Sport is a drug. And I was addicted to it. When I was cut from the United squad a few weeks ago, I went through some extreme withdrawals....
nicole calder
Nov 5, 20185 min read
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The epidemic need to escape reality through suicide
Suicide continues to be a recurring theme in my life. And I believe anything that’s recurring, whether that’s lessons, themes, or people,...
nicole calder
Nov 26, 20179 min read
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13 Reasons Why
I’m sure by now almost everyone has heard of this show, either from personally watching it or because of the controversy that has...
nicole calder
May 29, 20173 min read
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