nicole calderSep 4, 20222 min readTHE PAIN OF BEING MISUNDERSTOOD when i was a kid, i always felt like there was something wrong with me. aside from my sexuality, i seemed to care about things many...
nicole calderMay 30, 20223 min readWE ARE NOT THE STORIES WE TELL OURSELVES "many people are afraid to heal because their entire identity is centred around the trauma they've experienced. they have no idea who...
nicole calderMay 6, 20222 min readWHAT HAVE I DONEi quit my job. i'm turning 29 this year and i keep asking myself; what the fuck are you doing with your life? how long are you going to...
nicole calderApr 25, 20222 min readDELAYED GRATIFICATIONwhat i'm finding so challenging with the work i'm doing is the delay between the interest and the execution. the silence between...
nicole calderAug 30, 20201 min readREJECTIONgetting rejected sucks. whether it be for a job, a person, or being selected on a team, no one likes the feelings that rejection brings....
nicole calderAug 26, 20202 min readWHY DO WORDS HURT?last week i had a situation where someone said some hurtful things to me. immediately after the words were expressed, i broke down in...
nicole calderAug 5, 20201 min read"STICKS AND STONES...may break my bones but words will never hurt me.” whoever came up with this phrase has obviously never truly lived. because reality is,...