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what does it mean to ‘cheat on someone’? is it considered cheating to be attracted to someone else? to feel connected to someone else? to...
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nicole calder
Jul 26, 20212 min read
HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?
is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...
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nicole calder
Apr 27, 20211 min read
WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT INGREDIENT IN ANY SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP?
a willingness and commitment to resolving issues. what i’m learning is that relationships are less about finding the perfect partner -...
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nicole calder
Oct 13, 20202 min read
BREAK UPS
i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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nicole calder
Jan 22, 201913 min read
Get raw, get real
These are unedited excerpts from my journal. Some names have been altered to respect the privacy of the individuals mentioned. 17th...
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nicole calder
May 28, 20188 min read
Who do you want to become?
Sometimes it takes meeting someone to help you realise all the places in which you are stuck. At least that’s what happened with me....
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nicole calder
Mar 10, 20177 min read
The destruction caused in the name of religion
Do I like her? As a friend? As something more? Do I want to be her? Do I envy her? Do I like her style? Is she into women too? These are...
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nicole calder
Feb 5, 20172 min read
be not yourself
"be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...
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nicole calder
Dec 12, 20162 min read
Heartbreak
Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...
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nicole calder
Nov 28, 20165 min read
The deathly price of technology
We live in a technology-dominated society. The same technology that was once invented to make communication more accessible has been...
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nicole calder
Nov 2, 20166 min read
“Bury your gays” – How media affects the LGBTQI+ community
WARNING: This post contains spoilers. I just finished watching Wentworth last night and I am livid, heartbroken, and enraged. At first...
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nicole calder
Oct 4, 20165 min read
Be yourself and be okay with it
I have this phrase tattooed on me. Well, not tattooed, but I have it engraved on the dog tags that I wear all the time in remembrance of...
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nicole calder
Aug 17, 20167 min read
What’s up with our dating culture?
I’ve had a few very good conversations centred around this topic of late, many of which have been inspired by someone who lives and loves...
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nicole calder
Jul 31, 20166 min read
Who are you?
When asked who you are, how do you respond? How is it that you choose to define yourself? Many unconscious humans use labels to define...
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