nicole calder

what does it mean to ‘cheat on someone’? is it considered cheating to be attracted to someone else? to feel connected to someone else? to...

is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...

a willingness and commitment to resolving issues. what i’m learning is that relationships are less about finding the perfect partner -...

i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...

These are unedited excerpts from my journal. Some names have been altered to respect the privacy of the individuals mentioned. 17th...

Sometimes it takes meeting someone to help you realise all the places in which you are stuck. At least that’s what happened with me....

Do I like her? As a friend? As something more? Do I want to be her? Do I envy her? Do I like her style? Is she into women too? These are...

"be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...

Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...

We live in a technology-dominated society. The same technology that was once invented to make communication more accessible has been...

WARNING: This post contains spoilers. I just finished watching Wentworth last night and I am livid, heartbroken, and enraged. At first...

I have this phrase tattooed on me. Well, not tattooed, but I have it engraved on the dog tags that I wear all the time in remembrance of...

I’ve had a few very good conversations centred around this topic of late, many of which have been inspired by someone who lives and loves...

When asked who you are, how do you respond? How is it that you choose to define yourself? Many unconscious humans use labels to define...