nicole calderFeb 3, 20195 min readThe importance of feeling valuedValued. We all want to feel it. We all need to feel it. Feeling valued means we feel seen. It means that we feel safe. It means that...
nicole calderNov 6, 20185 min readConnection is the ultimate antidepressantSport is a drug. And I was addicted to it. When I was cut from the United squad a few weeks ago, I went through some extreme withdrawals....
nicole calderOct 16, 20189 min readThe ugly side of sportsOur society operates on the premise that if you work hard enough, you can achieve anything you want. But there’s a fundamental flaw in...
nicole calderFeb 20, 20189 min readChallenging coaching“Leading by example is not the best way to influence people, it’s the only way,” (Gormley, 2013). As a coach, I understand and wholly...
nicole calderJan 24, 20176 min readA purposeless lifeI’ve been struggling for some time now and it hasn’t been until the past month that I’ve really started to understand the reason why. At...
nicole calderSep 18, 201610 min readDeliberate practiceThis is the most valuable piece of advice I can give anyone who is wanting to succeed at anything and the piece of advice I wish I had...
nicole calderJun 19, 20167 min readThe importance of belongingIn order to experience the true elation of belonging, one must first experience the true isolation of feeling alone. And that I have...
nicole calderApr 25, 20167 min readConfronting fearsI’m sitting here currently crying. Earlier today I found out that the women’s premier soccer league (WPSL) in America will be back in...