PASSIVITY IS CONTROLLING OUR LIVES
three years ago i was sitting in a doctor's office being told "it's your acl...again." my brother and i then raced off to the airport as...
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nicole calder
Nov 8, 20212 min read
PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES
read that again. this is one of the most liberating phrases you will ever read. often in life we tend to do two things - we tend to take...
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nicole calder
Oct 11, 20211 min read
I'M A FRAUD
for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...
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nicole calder
Sep 27, 20212 min read
RESPECT BOUNDARIES
i've been reflecting recently on some of my behaviour with specific regards to relationships, new and old. and i've been struggling to...
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nicole calder
Sep 19, 20212 min read
FULL CIRCLE MOMENTS
can you ever really understand a situation until you've been through similar? the times in my life where i've endured the most pain have...
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nicole calder
Aug 11, 20212 min read
ASK BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS
the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask. often in life, we avoid asking the difficult questions....
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nicole calder
Jun 20, 20212 min read
SAY SORRY
even if you don't think you're in the wrong. apologising doesn't mean you accept the other person's behaviour, nor does it mean you don't...
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nicole calder
May 31, 20212 min read
DO WHAT YOU WANT
because why would you want to do something you didn't want to do? i suspect for many people there's a significant amount of resistance...
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nicole calder
Jan 28, 20211 min read
BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...
try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...
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nicole calder
Sep 9, 20202 min read
COMPASSION
through most of my life, people have told me that i think too much. that i analyse too much. that i can be “too much”. but here’s what i...
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nicole calder
May 30, 20201 min read
YOUR BOSS IS A HUMAN TOO
this past week, i witnessed two men i respect become vulnerable with me. one admitted that he had been struggling with motivation ever...
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