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nicole calder
Jul 26, 20212 min read
HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?
is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...
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nicole calder
Jul 3, 20212 min read
LETTING GO
what's considered a setback and what's considered a sign? when is it called persistence and when is it called stupidity? suffering isn't...
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nicole calder
May 21, 20212 min read
TRY HARDER OR LEAVE?
one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...
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nicole calder
Oct 17, 20202 min read
HOW DO YOU LET GO OF SOMEONE?
we as humans like to attach to people and to things. attachment gives us a sense of security, a sense of purpose, a sense of control. but...
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nicole calder
Oct 13, 20202 min read
BREAK UPS
i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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nicole calder
Aug 16, 20202 min read
Living eulogy
Almost two months ago I wrote about the effects of my Dad’s medical scare and the resulting confrontation with not only my own...
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nicole calder
Jun 30, 20205 min read
Death
This is a topic I don’t want to talk about. I don’t want to talk about it because it scares the fucking shit out of me. The concept of...
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nicole calder
Jun 30, 20202 min read
CONFRONTING DEATH
this is not something i want to write about, it’s not something i want to talk about. death scares the fucking shit out of me. it...
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nicole calder
Dec 16, 20194 min read
Letting go
How? How do you let go? How do you let go of something you still want, but can’t have? This isn’t a trick question, nor is it a post with...
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nicole calder
Jan 11, 20176 min read
The contrast necessary in genuine appreciation
Is it possible to ever truly appreciate something without being exposed to the stark harshness of its contrasting and opposing...
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nicole calder
May 15, 20168 min read
Missing Christopher
“Most suicidal people are undecided about whether they really want to live or die. Sometimes when they attempt suicide they are gambling...
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